The play room.


Play therapy is a specialised form of counselling or psychotherapy which enables children to work through and understand their big feelings and life events that they may not be able to express through words. Whilst adult therapy may rely on talking about what has happened, play therapy maintains that play is a child’s natural language. By building a therapeutic relationship with the child, the play therapist facilitates a safe space in which the child can work at their own pace. Play therapy is an emerging profession in the UK and draws upon a range of theories. Key contributors include Anna Freud, Melanie Klein, Carl Rogers, and Virginia Axline.


The play room is equipped with a variety of toys, symbols, instruments, therapeutic stories, puppets and creative arts materials referred to as the “Play Therapy Toolkit”. The play therapist usually works non-directively which means that your child is free to choose what they wish to use in the play room provided that the child, the therapist and the objects in the room remain safe. The child is able to express, communicate and externalise without relying on verbal communication. There are times when the play therapist may work more directively with a child by leading the way and exploring certain themes or aspects of the Toolkit in a more focused way.


Play therapy may be a suitable intervention for a child if they have experienced one or more of the following:


·         Academic underachievement 

·         Anxiety

·         At risk of being/ is excluded from school

·         Attention deficiency 

·         Autism Spectrum Condition (ASC)

·         Barriers to learning

·         Bedwetting (enuresis) or soiling (encopresis)

·         Behavioural difficulties

·         Bereavement

·         Bullies or is bullied by others

·         Depression

·         Developmental delay

·         Disability/ long-term health condition

·         Displays inappropriate behaviour

·         Doesn’t play

·         Emotional difficulties

·         Friendship difficulties

·         Is adopted / fostered or in the process of this (with consent)

·         Long-term illness or terminal illness

·         Nightmares or disturbed sleep

·         Selective mutism

·         Sensory processing

·         Separation / divorce

·         Stress and phobias

·         Trauma

·         Withdrawn behaviour

·         Has experienced neglect emotional, physical or sexual abuse

Initially, a child will need to be referred by either a parent, teacher or SENCO. I will make contact to arrange an initial meeting and assessment to find out more about the child, their needs and how they present. After assessing whether a child is eligible for play therapy, I will meet the child and work with the child on the same day and at the same time each week. Play therapy usually lasts for a minimum of 12 sessions. Longer term play therapy is reviewed after every 6-8 sessions. 


Play therapy sessions are confidential. Nevertheless, I am able to share information with parents, colleagues and professionals about the general progress of a child. I must share information with other professionals if I am concerned that a child is being harmed, hurting others or themselves.


I will keep you informed about your child’s progress throughout the duration of play therapy. You will meet with me at the start of therapy, attend regular review meetings and, finally, an end meeting






I will keep you informed about your child’s progress throughout the duration of play therapy. You will meet with me at the start of therapy, attend regular review meetings and, finally, an end meeting.

You are very important in supporting your child through the process. Here are some ways in which you can support your child:


  • Encourage your child to attend sessions regularly.

  • Try to avoid asking your child what they have done in the play room.

  • Refrain from asking your child to “be good” or “have a nice time”; your child must feel free to express their feelings.

  • During therapy, behaviour may decline before it improves. Please tell me if you have any concerns.

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